In school she showed glimmers of brilliance. When we would
ask her to be on the Green House’s debating team (we were the captain) she
would agree and come prepared. From then on she would call us “captain” and the
name stuck. Years later when we met and decided that we school chums should
meet she was the most enthusiastic of the lot. From then on we classmates of
Adarsha Vidyalaya (Ganga, Ajit, Sanjeevan, Murli, Geeta, Sarsa, Chandra, Ravi,
Anil, etc.) would meet every few months for a few friendly tipples and sharing
of old jokes. Over the past four or five years we have become a tight-knit
community inviting each other for children’s weddings, wishing each other on
Onam, Christmas, Diwali.
Every meeting she would come armed with something to eat,
cooked by her. She was working for a hearing-aid-manufacturing company and when
the boss died he gave the business to her. But there were problems running the
business and she gave it up and settled in Coimbatore with her husband Gopal. We,
sort of, drifted apart as people living in different places in the sub-continent
can only do, not out of will or volition, but from laziness. We thought of
calling her many times, but something petty would intervene. Then from
Coimbatore she sent us an email that stunned us. Both her kidneys had failed,
she informed us, and she was undergoing dialysis.
At Krishna's Wedding. Sarasa is second from left. |
Then Ganga broke the news: Sarasa Gopal is no more. Few
months ago when I met her at Ganga’s son Akash’s wedding she was her usual
cheerful self, laughing and joking. After that came her son Krishna’s wedding
and we saw her in her gayest mood. “Dhabake khana (eat well),” she told us. We
couldn’t because we all looked at the sweetmeats spread before us wistfully and
with regret.
All of us have our own problems and are wondering about our
futures. The news is not good on the medical front. There is no cure for old
age and the wearing of overworked organs. We have abused our bodies commuting
and sitting in front of computers. Illness and its attendant problems can
strike at any time. When it strikes there are a series of unbelievable discoveries
you make about your body. The problem is, despite what they call the
advancement of medical science, it remains a science of cutting and joining
body parts and treating of the symptoms with antibiotics and pain killers. It
disillusions you after some time. This is the plain naked truth from a sufferer
himself. We can’t believe she has gone into the vast space yonder and left us
all in pain. All we can do is try and be cheerful like Sarasa.
Rest in peace, Sarasa Gopal.